Anonymous said: How do you suggest dealing with your Indian family (biological) when they shut you out of learning about your culture and have others help them because you 'might be Indian but you pass easily as white and grew up white so you've never had to struggle the way we have and don't deserve our (tribal) knowledge'? Or being told by people who can't pass as white to stop wearing tribal positive clothing or native jewelry or tattoos because they think you're white because you can pass as white?
Your ancestors recognize you. If you’re Native, albeit lighter skinned, you’re Native. Celebrate it. Be proud of your heritage. Rock that beadwork. Carry our messages. If your family won’t teach you, seek out others. And love them anyway. To Natives, family is everything.
It seems to me quite reasonable to think that the death of the fly is entirely insignificant and that it is at the same time a kind of catastrophe. To entertain such contradictions is always uncomfortable, but in this case the dissonance echoes far and wide, bouncing off countless other decisions about what to buy, what to eat – what to kill; highlighting the inconsistencies in our philosophies, our attempts to make sense of our place in the world and our relations to our co‑inhabitants on Earth. The reality is that we do not know what to think about death: not that of a fly, or of a dog or a pig, or of ourselves.
That tadpoles are fodder for pond-life is as natural as the leaves falling on the water in autumn; that flies get squidged is as ordinary as apples rotting in the orchard. One’s own death, on the other hand, seems most unnatural. It seems rather an error and an outrage; a cosmic crime; a reason to raise one’s fist and rebel against the regime that ordered this slaughter of innocents… But here we are – guests at the party of life and death. We know we must exit along with the flies and the tadpoles. But we would rather not think about it.
We cannot do away with death without doing away with life.”
Philosopher Stephen Cave, author of Immortality: The Quest to Live Forever and How It Drives Civilization, echoes Alan Watts in a beautiful essay on death in Aeon Magazine.
Or, as C.S. Lewis put it, “Try to exclude the possibility of suffering which the order of nature and the existence of free wills involve, and you find that you have excluded life itself.”(via explore-blog)